One simple garment he can wear to invigorate your beach getaway while boosting his confidence in ways that live on long past vacation
As the summer season approaches, many couples are planning beach getaways, and one topic that often comes up is what men should wear to the beach. While swim trunks might have been your guy’s de facto beach look until now, there are several compelling reasons why women should want their husbands and boyfriends to wear speedos instead.
Attractiveness
Let’s just get this one out of the way first: why are so many of us resisting the idea that speedos are hot. Many women find men in speedos to be incredibly attractive, but go along reinforcing the societal pressure telling guys they shouldn’t wear them. Why is half the beach expected to wear skimpy bikinis and the other half baggy boardshorts? This madness has to stop — let’s see some skin boys! Speedos accentuate the male form, emphasizing the muscles and contours of the body in a way that swim trunks simply can’t match. In fact, many women find the sight of a man in a well-fitted speedo to be a turn-on, making it a great choice for couples looking to spice up their beach vacations. The 9–5 can be so monotonous and boring, so get him to suit up in a little less fabric to infuse some excitement into summer getaways.
Confidence
Wearing a speedo also requires a certain level of confidence, which is an attractive quality in and of itself. Men who are brave enough to show off their bodies in a more form-fitting garment demonstrate a sense of self-assurance and comfort in their own skin; is there anything hotter than that?
Even if your guy lacks moxie in the fashion department, the act of wearing a speedo can help boost his confidence. While you and he may both worry about what other people are going to think or say, the reality is they don’t care and are probably preoccupied with their own thoughts and distractions. And if someone doesn’t like it, they’re probably just envious and are free to go on living their boring, boardshort saddled lives, that have absolutely nothing to do with you.
The experience of wearing a speedo for the first time will make any guy feel more comfortable and empowered on the beach. Who knows what else this confidence might inspire?
Performance
This might be my most salient argument for all of you outdoorsy and active couples out there. From a practical standpoint, speedos are the best choice for men who plan on spending a lot of time in the water. Unlike baggy swim trunks that can weigh a person down and cause drag, speedos are streamlined and efficient, making swimming and other water-based activities easier and more enjoyable. This improved and unencumbered performance can make for a more fun and satisfying beach experience for you both.
Comfort
While speedos may be foreign sartorial territory to most men, they‘re’ actually quite comfortable when worn properly. Most guys I’ve been with can’t believe how relaxed the feel in speedos are after their first time wearing them. The snug fit and stretchy material can provide support and reduce chafing, making it easier to move and enjoy the beach. Additionally, many speedos are designed with features like moisture-wicking fabric and built-in sun protection, which can make for a more comfortable and enjoyable beach day. Pretty convenient for packing too!
Finally… the “gay” question
“Are speedos gay?” is a question I hear all the time. While I’m inclined to dismiss the idea of an article of clothing being gay as ridiculous, it’s true that gay guys love wearing speedos. And that’s all the more reason for straight guys to embrace them! We should all agree by now that hom*ophobia is stupid and that we shouldn’t deprive ourselves of anything based on a hateful ideology. Especially a piece of clothing worn by some of the hottest movie stars and athletes for decades. If your man is worried that people might think he’s gay based on anything he’s wearing, I’d say you have a bigger problem on your hands.
In conclusion, there are many reasons why women should want their husbands and boyfriends to wear speedos at the beach. From the attractive and confident look they provide to the practical benefits they offer, speedos can be a great choice for any couple looking to enjoy a fun and fulfilling beach vacation. So the next time you’re packing for your beach getaway, consider ditching the trunks and opting for a sleek and stylish speedo instead.
Need some recommendations?
While the go-to brand for Speedos is of course… Speedo, there are lots of up and coming companies you should definitely check out. Here are a few insider recommendations to get you and your man started on your speedo journey.
Walden Outdoor Athletic
Walden Outdoor Athletic is a fairly new swimwear brand whose commitment to using recycled and organic textiles of very high quality ensures value and longevity for both their customers and the planet.
Their stylish and functional designs cater to the needs of athletes and the fashion-conscious alike, so they’re a good brand to get your feet wet (both figuratively and literally!). Guys also love the skull and pine tree logo that is featured on all of their suits and is a reminder of their sustainability efforts.
Walden Athletic swimwear has become a favorite for those in-the-know for a few main reasons:
- Sustainability: Walden Outdoor Athletic uses sustainable materials in its production process. For instance, they use recycled polyester and nylon to make their swimwear. This helps to reduce the environmental impact of their products and promote a circular economy. They also produce all of their speedo style suits, which they call the Club Brief, in small American factories promoting local economies.
- Quality: The quality of Walden Outdoor Athletic’s swimwear is top-notch. They use high-quality materials that are durable and long-lasting (i.e. UV and chlorine resistant). Their swimwear is also designed to fit well and retain its shape, ensuring that customers feel comfortable and confident when wearing it.
- Design: Walden Athletic’s swimwear is stylish and trendy, yet functional enough for any athlete. They offer a wide range of designs, from solid colors to bold prints, ensuring that there’s something for everyone while providing support and freedom of movement for a great swimming experience.
Walden Athletic has also built a niche and loyal following of outdoor enthusiasts based on the quality of its suits and sustainability efforts. There’s a real sense of community that surrounds the brand so you’ll definitely be surrounded by friends if you go to one of their occasional meetups!
Sluggers
Another under the radar brand you should check out is Sluggers. Based in Australia, they’ve developed a cult following similar to Walden Athletic with their retro athletic styling and color schemes. Sluggers is best known for classic fits and solid construction so they’re another great choice to get him in his first speedo.
The Big Designers
Planning a yacht trip in Palermo? Honeymoon in Malta? Maybe an exclusive Palm Springs resort (all perfect destinations to debut your man’s new speedo persona). European guys have always been known for their speedo flair so you can’t go wrong with a fancy European designer suit. Extra points if it matches your handbag.
Versace
Dsquared2
Jacquemus
